14.12.11

Opryland

Just before we left Nashville, I thought it would be fun to take a trip over to the Opryland Hotel and see the Christmas lights.  It's been awhile since I had been there anyway...Mimi and Bapa had taken Maggie back in September while we were in Philly, and she enjoyed all the waterfalls, fountains, and landscaping.  If you've never been, Opryland Hotel has some AMAZING indoor gardens to walk through, complete with several waterfalls, fountains, and a river big enough to take a boat tour on.  We went with Eric's parents, and Sami and Jonathan and their son Liam.

Here are Ben and Liam, enjoying their free candy canes before we got started (my mom likes to say that I got my first taste of sugar at my first Christmas, when I sucked the wrapping off a candy cane and then held on so hard that no one could pry it away from me....I don't think Ben got past the wrapper!)
 Our first view of the HUGE Christmas tree inside the Delta section.
 Maggie was fascinated with it!  So sweet to see all sorts of Christmas things through the eyes of our kids.

 We saw Santa Claus next, but were unable to take our own pictures.  There was no line, so Maggie got to go right up and sit on Santa's lap.  She had no fear at all, and just sat there with a little smirky grin on her face.  She didn't know what to say when he asked what she wanted for Christmas, until Santa then asked if she liked Dora.  Maggie then regaled him with all sorts of tales of her Dora sleeping bag, the Christmas tree, escalators, etc.  Very cute!  Then it was on to another section of the hotel:
 Ben couldn't keep his eyes off all the sparkly lights on the ceiling.  It was pretty magical.  Overall, it was a fun way to kick off the Christmas celebrations!

10.12.11

I-40 is Like an Old Friend

We have safely arrived in Scottsdale, AZ, and are enjoying the company of our family.  It was nine days in the car, visiting with lots of great family and friends that we haven't gotten the chance to see in a while.  Incredible hospitality was ours, and we are thankful.  However, there is one old friend that we hadn't seen in a while that deserves special mention:  Interstate 40.

I-40, especially west of Oklahoma City is, for me, the quintessential American road trip, and that kind of road trip is truly a uniquely American experience.  Open roads.  High speed limits.  Vast distances with nothing in between except little peppered bits of classic Americana.

Western Oklahoma and the panhandle of Texas (still part of "West Texas", apparently) are about the same:  amazing flat nothing-ness.  In 2001, I took a rather famous road trip to the Grand Canyon with some friends, and I still remember someone (I can't recall who) telling me that the only thing that impedes your vision is the curvature of the earth.  I thought they were exaggerating.  But no.

America is big.

And then you get to Amarillo, a town of about a thousand hotels and restaurants, a big train station, and little else.  However, deserving special mention is "The Big Texan", a restaurant I have never visited, but has lots of billboards, which are really like the tour guide of I-40.  A 72-oz steak for free if you can eat it.  And a free limo service as well, presumably so that they can get you home to one of your many hotel options after your steak-eating attempt puts you into a uremic coma.  According to the picture, they are open for breakfast.  I can only imagine.


As soon as the majesty of the vastness of this region wears off (which may or may not take longer than the time it takes your car to accelerate to the 75 mph speed limit), you don't have too long to wait until New Mexico.  You have been subtly climbing thousands of feet since Oklahoma, with nothing to show for it except a reduced fuel efficiency on your car, and all of a sudden you are in the high desert at 7000 ft.  The scenery truly is beautiful, with the same vastness, but a little more to admire.


The thing about New Mexico is that you are constantly reminded of the fact that the I-40 you are driving is, in fact, the old Route 66, that once was "America's Main Street".  Nostalgic billboards are everywhere, and homemade roadside attractions are still of the type you would imagine from old road trip movies.  In fact, many of them were there then, and haven't changed much.


Every town has way more hotels than would be justified for a town it's size, testifying to the "stopover" nature of these locations, including the famous "Hotel el Rancho" in our old once-upon-a-time home in Gallup, NM.  According to the billboards, Hotel el Rancho is "Home of the Movie Stars", using the present tense for something that you're quite sure is now past tense, which further buttresses its charm of yesteryear.

Once you cross the Arizona state line, the environment has been distinctively Navajo for quite a while, and you can stop at Fort Courage if you like.  Don't be fooled by the gigantic "Pancake House Restaurant" sign or the prominent gas station.  Those services are no longer available.  We know.  We stopped there years ago to find a place to feed baby Maggie, and ended up huddled in an unused cubby hole of the remaining souvenir shop.



From there, it's a straight shot past the Petrified Forest and the Meteor Crater, on to Flagstaff.  Just hang a left and coast down 4000ft in altitude until you ditch the snow and enter the valley of the sun.

When you move away to another country, you may fear that some things will be changed irrevocably by the time you get back.  I don't have such fears about this little corner of my home country.

5.12.11

Waycross

Ever since I met Eric, I have been hearing about the great family tradition of Thanksgiving in Waycross.  His family has been going down to his aunt's in southern GA for probably over 15 yrs now, but we were never able to go.  Until this year.  It was originally the plan to spend Thanksgiving with Rachel's family and Christmas with Eric's, but all his sisters are also alternating holidays and were doing Thanksgiving in Georgia this year.  Combined with the fact that Rachel's brother is getting married in Phoenix at Christmas and it made sense to switch.  So last Wednesday we loaded up the car and drove nine hours through just a little bit of holiday traffic to Waycross, along with about 30 other relatives from his mom's side of the family.

It was quite a holiday!  First, the McLaughlin siblings did a little ornament and gift exchange in the hotel.  Pretty ironically, every kid preferred someone else's gift to the one they received.  No tears, though!



 Our niece Sierra:
 And nephew Liam:
We were really surprised to receive an awesome gift of an accordion from Eric's sister Jena and her husband Brian.  Brian's grandma had left him three, so they gave us one.  Should be fun to learn how to play!



Thursday night was an awesome seafood feast of crab legs, shrimp, fish tacos, fish stew, two kinds of cake, etc.  That wasn't even the Thanksgiving meal!  The big meal was celebrated Friday afternoon.  First, we dressed up the girls in their matching cousin outfits.
 Then it was time for family photos.  Mimi made matching pajamas for all the grandkids.

  While the meal was cooking, Maggie and Sierra enjoyed playing with some window decals.
 Ben and Liam grabbed each others' toys.
 And Grammy and Papa got a picture with all five great grandkids, aged 2 1/2 to 4 months.
 Daddy and his kids!
 Finally, the meal!  It featured no less than 17 dishes, like corn casserole, sweet potato casserole, broccoli casserole...well, you get the idea.
 32 people sat around the table!
 One of Eric's cousins made the name placesettings.  Look at Ben's cute little leaf!
Then on Saturday after a feast of leftovers, we headed back to Nashville.  A long drive, but great to finally be a part of this family tradition!

4.12.11

Two New Blogs

Actually, it's not that they are terribly new, but they have been neglected from our blog roll.  Our cousin Tyler has some great writings from his seminary life, and Chunkle Brian (pictured on the bottom, but not the ridiculously happy guy, the other guy with the knife) has fun literary musings.  See sidebar for links.


3.12.11

Goodbye Nashville

Well, three months have passed since we returned to US soil.  That means that our time in Nashville has come to an end.  It was a good time, a whirlwind of events and friends and family, and now we're moving on to two months in Phoenix (via St. Louis, Kansas City, Springfield, and Albuquerque).  Here are a few highlights from our last month in Nashville:

Eric's sister Sami ran the Viva la Diva 5K in Cool Springs.  We went to cheer her on and someone loaned Maggie a cowbell.   She enjoyed the noise immensely.

 Viva la Sami!
 Bapa celebrated his birthday while we we there, starting with breakfast in bed (a potty training Maggie had already taken off her jammies that morning)
 And blowing out the candles...more successful than her own 2nd birthday...
 Ben got to meet his Great-Papa and Great-Grammy.
 Great Grammy reading to her oldest great-grandchild, Maggie (and Ben)

26.11.11

Props from Rob

A generous piece of publicity from our friend Rob Still at his blog, re: my CD of Kenyan Recordings.

18.11.11

Parallel Photos

We do recognize that time passes.  I understand that while we were in Kenya Maggie aged two years, and after departing with a 7 month old we returned with a 6 month old and a 2 1/2 yr old.  It's hard to remember that everyone else aged two years, too!  During these past month we've had the chance to visit and reconnect with some great friends.  There were a few photos from our travels in 2009 that I tried to recreate this year, 2011.  See what you think.

Then, with an affectionate Calvin Rocke:

Now, with an unenthused Calvin Rocke:
 

Then, Maggie and her very much smaller (though only three months younger) friend Andrew Rogers:
Now, the same size, mirroring their fathers' music skills:



 Then, an excited Maggie sits in Great Grandma Selle's little rocking chair:

 Now, an excited Ben sits in Great Grandma Selle's little rocking chair:

(and Maggie is much bigger)

15.11.11

Rich Mullins

Sorry for the posting lapse.  We've been traveling a lot, to Michigan, then Louisville, then back to Nashville.  And then a special treat, the Grandparents McLaughlin are watching the kids while we two get two nights free at a B&B in east Tennessee.  This is where we are.  And it's lovely.

I've been reading this Rich Mullins biography, and came away with a couple new quotes that I really liked, so I'm posting them here, in the hopes that sharing will prevent forgetting.


"It is a beautiful night out - a good strong moon, stars, a beautiful black sky, and Wichita all lit up under it.  I listened to "Adagio for strings" tonight.  It is a beautiful sound, and...maybe I will someday write something as beautiful as "Adagio," something as beautiful as this night.  And if I had a child, I'd tell him to let these things speak to him as I cannot speak, and to see in them what cannot yet be seen in himself, and know that a day is coming when the night will envy his beauty and when "Adagio" will sound like a theory assignment compared to the sound that he will be - one vibrant, shimmering answer that silences the noise of proud skepticism." - Rich Mullins (1955-1997)

"Doctor, without your wounds, where would your power be?  It is your melancholy that makes your low voice tremble into the hearts of men and women.  The very angels themselves cannot persuade the wretched and blundering children of this earth as can one human being broken on the wheels of living.  In love's service only wounded soldiers can serve." - Brennan Manning quoting Thorton Wilder's An Angel That Troubled the Waters

1.11.11

Happy Halloween!

This year marks the second year in a row that I've awakened Maggie from a nap to go trick-or-treating.  Does that make me a bad parent?  (wake up kid, time to go get some candy)  We had some cute costumes and enjoyed going around a friend's neighborhood on the west side of Ann Arbor.  Mags also got a chance to "paint" a pumpkin with finger paint.  Messy and enjoyable, as you'll see.


 The princess says, "Give me candy!"  She wouldn't wear the crown ("owie") and would only put on the costume ("itchy") after being told it was a requirement for collecting candy....)
 Ben was an adorable lion, which I picked up at a garage sale in Tennessee!
 Good thing it was a warm costume, since it couldn't have been more than 40 degrees outside.
 Fun neighborhood for trick or treating!